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Rabbi Denise L. Eger

From Despair to Hope-Degradation to Praise- A Sermon for Kol Nidre

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Shanah Tovah Happy New Year and Gmar Chatimah Tovah I wish you a good inscription of your story in the Book of Life.

Tonight is Kol Nidre.  We like Jews around the world are gathering with solemn thoughts of the wrongs we did and the wrongs that others did to us during the past year.  We are gathering with a country that seems to teeter on the edge of incivility and insolvency as the Washington elites of both parties pander and posture for re-election rather than take a serious look at the despair of the American people.

Despair is the word of our time.  I see it in the faces of those in our own community who are unemployed for now multiple years.  I see a growing anger and hopelessness in those who are underemployed stringing together minimal part time jobs so their employers can avoid paying costly benefits.

I hear despair in the voices of retirees on fixed incomes who worry whether they will have enough to maintain their way of life.  And those on disability who are one budget veto away from homelessness.
I hear despair and worry in the stories of those who have had to sell their condos and houses for great losses.
I hear despair in the voices of parents who cannot provide for their children the same kind of education or summer camp that they went to. I see despair in the voices of recent college graduates who cannot repay their school loans because there are no jobs in their field.
I see despair on the streets of Los Angeles as there are more homeless than ever.
It is not a happy time in America.  It is not a happy time in the world.  Where did the pursuit of happiness go?  

But this is not just an American despair. It is a difficult time all over the world.  Europe’s financial system is in turmoil led by great debt in Greece and Spain.  The Arab Spring is quickly turned into the Arab Morass-as Syrian President Bashir Assad mows down his citizens with little condemnation from the world.  Libyan revolutionary forces have caused Ghaddafi to flee but the country is still in chaos.  And the great country of Egypt is at an economic stand still.  It is still controlled by military council—and even as elections looms- there is not a single emerging political party that supports the more than 30 year old peace treaty with Israel. Egyptians just recently stormed the Israeli Embassy and attacked the diplomats there. The security and safety of the border with Israel is now more in question that ever before.  The last terror attack in Eilat-all the terrorists were Egyptians.

Turkey once Israel’s great ally has turned against her- and Europe looking more toward its fellow Islamic countries.   Lebanon once a country with an active Christian population is now dominated in it Parliament by Hezbollah-a front for the real cause of much of the Middle East turmoil-Iran.  

Iran marches toward nuclear capabilities each and every day that passes in spite of severe economic sanctions.  But the Chinese continue to buy Iranian Oil to feed its burgeoning population.  Iran already has nuclear power on line and also has developed long range missiles capable of carrying warheads more than 900 miles to downtown Tel Aviv.

And of course the Palestinian bid for statehood that would bypass direct negotiations and that wants to build on the worldwide campaign to delegitimize Israel.  As Mahmoud Abbas came to the UN this past month talking about the holy land –mentioning the history of Islam and Christianity and conveniently ignoring the more than 3000 years of Jewish history in the land.  There is despair in the Palestinian people as well as their leaders posture and prepare the youth for hating Israel rather than trying to make peace and live side by side with the Jewish State.  The Palestinian people want peace with Israel-their leadership want the land Judenrein-free of Jews.

There is despair in the Israeli population as dissatisfaction with the government led more than 400,000 Israelis to march in peaceful protest of the increasing gap between the wealthiest and the middle class and the poor. Not to mention those that are on the streets of London and now the US as the Occupy Wall Street movement grows from city to city.

And we haven’t even discussed the effects of Global warming yet; of rising sea levels, changed weather patterns of drought and rainfall or the clear cutting of rainforests in South America or the militia violence in the Congo or drought and famine in Somalia.  Yes there is much to despair this Kol Nidre eve.  

And these are just the global issues.  Each of us has tzoris-as we say in Yiddish. Personal pains and sadnesses.  For some of us –it is our health. For others of us it is loneliness.  For some of it is loss of our dreams-never being able to attain that which we had hoped. For some of it is grief at the death of loved ones.

We can look at the world through these bitter pills. Through the lens of bitter darkness. And we would be right to do so.

Despair is tricky.  It is close to depression.  Real depression.  For some of us it goes hand in hand.  Deep depression is a deep seated feeling of utter hopelessness and overwhelming fear.  The inability to make a decision. To focus.  To feel as if you can have an impact on the world.   The despair of our neighbors can be contagious as a flu.   According to government statistics, everyone is affected by depression. You are either one of three women, one in six men, or are close to someone who is clinically depressed [1]( “National Health Priority Areas Mental Health: A Report Focusing on Depression from the Australian Institute of Health and Welfare”, 1998.) Depressive disorders affect approximately 18.8 million American adults or about 9.5% of the U.S. population age 18 and older in a given year.

Despair often comes from a deep sense of loss. And it has at least four dimensions to it: Physical, Emotional, Intellectual and Spiritual.  And yet all are intertwined.  As Rabbi Elie Spitz describes in his book, “Healing from Despair”:  

Despair is a whirlwind, a spiraling downward that we enter at the point of a diagnosis, a crisis, or a tragedy, and the cumulative impact is greater than the total weight of the individual burdens we carry. The spiral creates a momentum, so that we find our thoughts racing toward gloom and we can no longer sleep or eat or meet our needs. (p.36, Healing from Despair, Jewish Lights).

With the world so overwhelming at a global scale and for many of us at a personal level it is a wonder that we can get out of bed at all.  The truth is many of us cannot.  Many of us are deeply depressed, deeply and existentially sad, very lonely and feel hopeless to regain our footing.
We can cry with the Psalmist who said it best:  O God, God of my deliverance. By day, I cried; at night, I stood before You. Let my prayers reach You. Incline your ear to my song. For my soul is filled with troubles and my life is at the brink of the grave. I am numbered with those who go down to the pit, I have become like a person without strength. I am considered among the dead who are free as the slain that lie in the grave, those You are no longer mindful of and who are cut off by Your care. You have put me in the lowest pit, into the darkest places into shadows. (Ps 88, 2-5)

The words of the Psalmist echo our individual and collective despair.  The Psalmist
understood deep loneliness and pain.  The Psalmist understands our feelings of
abandonment.  The deep welling up of our melancholy.

But it is precisely out of this sense of darkness and deep discontent with the world and ourselves that Yom Kippur comes to lift us and purify us for the year ahead.  Tonight on Kol Nidre we begin the process of purification. Of removing the dark bitter points within our souls and washing them clean. Kol Nidre and Yom Kippur can help us move that bitterness from our kishkes, from our psyches and renew us, help us atone and forgive ourselves and others.  

It is often our own failures or perceived failures either spiritual or physical that lead us toward the gloom of despair.  We feel utterly hopeless to overcome those flaws and those fears.  And yet, what we do here tonight and tomorrow is a process of forgiveness.  And this starts with forgiving not only others but first and foremost forgiving yourself.  

Robert Karen writes in his book “The Forgiving Self” that when we are caught up in the negativity of regret and guilt “we deny ourselves the space to be. There is no right to explore, to struggle, to make mistakes, to not know. There is no forgiving voice that says, you were being you, and that was all you could be at the time. There is only bitterness and grudge. Obsessive regret is how we submit and get defeated. Often, it is little more than revenge against the self.” (p. 117-118)

On this Yom Kippur and this Kol Nidre eve our tradition teaches us that we must begin our souls rehabilitation with asking God to forgive our sins and freeing us from the regret, guilt and hopelessness that we blame ourselves for.  

As our Tradition teaches in the commentary Shnei Luchot Habrit and the Talmud Yoma 20b (as quoted in Handbook of Jewish Thought, volume by Rabbi Aryeh Kaplan, ed by Abraham Sutton, 1992, Moznaim Press, p.244)

Yom Kippur is a day when the power of evil is diminished and God’s light shines into every soul….the power of holiness on Yom Kippur is required to cleanse it and restore it to its pristine purity.

Tonight your soul is in the process of taking out the gloom and sadness and let God’s holy light illuminate the recesses of your being and grant you atonement.  Forgive yourself as you forgive others.  
Judaism recognizes that in order to lift the despair and move toward a sense of hope and healing we have to engage in the process of repair.  Of Tikkun.  One of the steps of this tikkun and repair is to pick up the shards.  

As many of you know I have explained time and again the mystics, the Lurianic, the Kabbalistic version of creation.  The light of God came from a small point outward to be contained in seven sacred vessels, but the light was so powerful that it shattered the vessels sending the shards lined with the divine sparks through the heavens to the earth. Our task is to seek out the shards, the broken pieces, collect them and restore them.  

This is the same with us.  We must collect the broken pieces of ourselves, and restore our souls to wholeness.  This was done at Mt. Sinai as well.

When Moses came down the Mountain with the first set of God written commandments and saw the great sin of idolatry as the Israelites danced and worshipped the Golden Calf, he smashed the stone covenant against the rocks-sending the Ten Commandments in shards of stone.  According to tradition Yom Kippur is the commemoration of the day Moses came back with the second set of Tablets. The day God forgave the Israelites as they repented in love.  Those tablets were placed in the Holy Ark of the covenant and carried through the wilderness to eventually generations later reside in the Holy of Holies in the ancient temple.

But what happened to the first set of commandments. Where did the shattered pieces of holy rock inscribed by the finger of God go? Were they left as debris on Mt. Sinai?  According to tradition (Talmud Baba Batra 14b) the shards were picked up and placed alongside the second set in the Holy Ark.  The shattered pieces exist side by side with those that are whole.  Out of the shattering both of the original vessels of creation and the original tablets of the Covenant comes a renewed opportunity for healing and hope- a pathway to releasing the Divine light within.  An opening for healing from the deepest despair whether collectively as the Jewish people did at Sinai or on an individual basis.  

Tonight on this Kol Nidre eve out of your brokenness, out of your despair, let the light of community, the light of forgiveness, the light of atonement, the light of Shabbat, the light of healing, the light of God heal your gloom. Begin the process of lifting you out of the deep despair of our time toward a sense of gratitude for your life and gratitude at a second chance.

And this soul healing or soul repair work is the work of this Yom Kippur.

We need the vision of wholeness beside us, near us just as the whole tablets resided next to the shattered ones.  
And for this we give thanks.  Real gratitude to know that even the Commandments written by God, were given a second time.  We were given a second chance at Sinai.  And today we give thanks that we too will be given a second chance in forgiveness.  
Gratitude is one of the ways we lift ourselves out of the despair and the gloom.  At Passover the Talmud (Pesachim 10:4) teaches us “matchil b’ganut v’sayem b’shevach”  -“ begin with degradation and end in praise.”  We begin the story with our oppression and end the Seder with praise of God.  This is a formula not only for spring time.  It is for this season as well. We begin our stories with our tzoris, our despair, our sins, our errors, and move toward atonement and praise of God and life.  

Gratitude helps lift us from the jaws of hopelessness when we can begin to see that there is still much to be thankful for.  Gratitude even in the midst of such deep feelings of despair and self-ridicule can help reverse the tidal waves of regret within.

Hope builds through gratitude for our lives. And Hope in the future-your future comes when we face the past and move beyond it in forgiveness.  .  And Yom Kippur helps us focus on moving towards hope and praise from the depths of our disillusionments in ourselves and in others and in the world.  

Our liturgy over the next day echos this idea as well.  We begin with the Kol Nidre, asking God to forgive us, we recite the ashamnu, and the great al cheyt, the listing of the sins and transgressions and at the end of tomorrow, at Neilah we will recite the Viddui prayer that ends in praise.

The great Rabbi Nachman of Bratslov suffered from deep depression in his poverty stricken life in the Ukraine.  He wrote the following as guidance for perceiving the light within:

When a person finds that he is utterly unable to pray or even to open his mouth on account of the greatness of his sadness and the bitterness of the darkness, he may perceive himself to be at an unfathomable distance from the Holy One. Even in this hopelessness he should search and seek within himself a point of merit. He should revive and rejoice through this because surely every person is worthy to grow in joy very greatly from each and every good point within himself. When we are in despair, we look at ourselves and see only unworthiness, but if we search within ourselves for one small point of light, that is good, that is worthy, we will find the one point and then we must search and find another, and then another. (Likutei Moharan 1 p.282)

Those connecting points of light within come directly from the Holy Sparks of Creation.  They reside in you. And if nothing else give thanks for the holiness that still lives in you despite the sins, errors, or despair that also exists side by side. Give thanks for the light that emanates from your soul. This Yom Kippur raise up the sparks and combine your light with that of others. Into one shining force for transformation.  For Healing and for Hope.  Yom Kippur is here to help your inner light shine brighter and for this we give thanks now and for the future light.

Our hope comes from the assurance of God’s ultimate gifts bestowed upon us-the gift of spiritual renewal and healing that is the hallmark of Yom Kippur.  The gift of forgiveness. We can heal from despair when we imagine a future free from the chains of gloom, freed from the enslavements of our transgressions.  We can heal when we give thanks for our very lives. As the Psalmist says(34:19): “God is close to the broken hearted and those crushed in spirit God delivers.”  We can heal from despair when we find the point of light within and fan the spark, the ember of hope into a full fledge-light of love, and peace.

Each night, Jewish Tradition teaches us that along with the Shema prayer we pray for a peaceful night.  In Birchat Lishon is also this idea that God’s Divine light illumine our nights and our day. It says,

Praised are You, Adonai, our God, Ruler of the universe, who closes my eyes in sleep, my eyelids in slumber.

May it be Your will, Adonai, My God and the God of my ancestors,

to lie me down in peace and then to raise me up in peace.

Let no disturbing thoughts upset me, no evil dreams nor troubling fantasies.

May my bed be complete and whole in Your sight.

Grant me light so that I do not sleep the sleep of death,

for it is You who illumines and enlightens.

Praised are You, Adonai, whose majesty gives light to the universe.




Tonight on the Kol Nidre eve let the light of the Divine radiate down upon you. Lift you from the despair of these times and help you find the divine light within yourself-that will allow you to forgive others and forgive yourself.  

For God’s majesty illumines the universe and will illumine your soul.

Ken Yehi Ratzon  So May it be God’s will.  

Rosh Hashanah- The Case for Jewish People Hood? Can we be One?(2)

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Shanah Tovah

Happy New Year Everyone!

For the last three years I have had a unique view of the Jewish People.  First, as President of the Pacific Association of Reform Rabbis, the Western Region and largest Region of the Central Conference of American Rabbis.  I led more than 450 Reform rabbis from Vancouver to El Paso, from Utah to New Zealand.  And for the past two years as President of the Board of Rabbis of Southern California, sponsored by The Los Angeles Jewish Federation but serving rabbis of all denominations, Orthodox, Conservative, Reform, Reconstructionist, from San Luis Obisbo to the Mexican Border. It was unique in that I was the first woman ever to do so.  And it allowed a type of conversation that hasn’t happened before.

 I have had a chance to visit congregations, talk with rabbis serving in schools and Hillels on college campuses. I talked with rabbis who serve in our federal prisons and chaplains in hospitals and young rabbis who are chaplains in the military and have served in Iraq and Afghanistan.  I have communicated regularly with the senior rabbis of the largest congregations with large rabbinic staffs and rabbis of small solo pulpits, rabbis who work in Jewish education, rabbis who are counselors or work in Jewish organizational life, with retired colleagues, with rabbis who teach in day schools and university, rabbis who are unemployed because of the changing nature of the economy and its impact on the Jewish institutional world.  I have had a chance to talk with them about their lives and the life and state of the Jewish People.  
            One of the continuing conversations among rabbis of all stripes from the most liberal to the most stringent is a conversation that I would like to share with you this morning.   “What is the State of the Jewish People? Can the Jewish People Survive? And can the Jewish People be One?”

During my term as President of the Board of Rabbis the continuing theme that I believed that was symbolic of my tenure as the first woman and first lesbian to ascend to be chair of the board was the idea of Klal Yisrael—the universal principle of the People Israel.  That despite our differences in the way we sing or pray that there is more that connects us than divides us. We can argue over Torah interpretation.  This is what our ancestors did and this is what is recorded in the pages of Talmud.  But most importantly the principle of Klal Yisrael means first and foremost that we are one People. We must care for one another for our fellow Jews even as we are concerned about the fate of all humanity; That we Jews have a responsibility to one another.   Kol Yisrael arvaim ze bazeh- That to survive in this fast paced contemporary setting that is the 21st century we have to opt in –to one another. 

But there are those who disagree. 

Many believe that the Jewish world like the larger world is more fractious, more divided and less connected than ever before despite technology.  Many believe the gap between the haredim, our Orthodox religious fundamentalists and those of us on the progressive wing of Judaism is insurmountable. Many in the Jewish world including sociologist Steven Bayme believe the divisiveness we see over the role of the modern state of Israel and our beliefs about how to bring peace to that troubled spot is emblematic of the vast divide.  His contention is  that we cannot speak civilly with one another shows that we are not one. And therefore we cannot care for one another. 

The divided nature of the Jewish people and Jewish community is further disconnected along generational lines according to research. Young Millennial Jews want no part of established institutions instead preferring to create their own connections but then find that they are unsustainable financially and fleeting at best. In an article this summer in the Jewish Daily Forward, “Funding Jewish Peoplehood, Misha Galperin the new CEO and President of Jewish Agency International Development writes:  :

(Read more: http://forward.com/articles/139464/#ixzz1Yu5sMU00)

 “Having been raised in a world of pluralism and tolerance, Jews younger than 45 do not necessarily privilege their Jewish brothers and sisters above others when it comes to friendship, marriage, volunteerism and charitable giving."  

Increasingly we then must ask Can the Jewish People be one?  And Is there even a Case for Jewish Peoplehood?

For millennia we have referred to our group-as the Jewish Nation  Am Yisrael.  The Nation of Israel-not Israelis-citizens of the modern state of Israel although the Jewish ones are too part of Am Yisrael.  But beyond the idea that Judaism-is a religion-we Jews  have believed that we have a connection that goes deeper.  That is yes, in part biological but not exclusively biological because we welcome those who choose Judaism.  We are a group with a shared ancient history and myths and legends collected in the narratives of our group-in the Torah, and the Bible, in our Talmud and Midrash.  We are a group that has core values and ideals that have been passed l’dor vador-from generation to generation, even as each generation has made its own mark to shape those values and ideals.

We have a sacred language – Hebrew- even as we spoke the other languages of the world.  And we have had a tie to a sacred place – Eretz Yisrael, the Land of Israel. The land of Zion – a place in our history which was real and from which we were forcibly exiled time and again-finally to return in recent memory of the 20th century. 

     But for most of our history we were a nation without borders.  We were a nation, a group , an ethnicity, that went beyond geographical considerations because of the exile of the Jews. That is how we can lovingly play that important Jewish parlor game---Jewish geography! I know you have all done it…Do you know so and so? Their family came from…. Not even six degrees of separation when we are talking about Jews. 
       In Hebrew the word Peoplehood is ammiyut…. And this idea has struck a deep chord among us –that somehow, beyond a religion or faith (as is sometimes used by Christians) beyond nationality or ethnicity (since we also hold passports from the modern nations of the world), beyond clan or tribe since ten of them where carried off in exile by the Assyrians, somehow we the Jewish people with our shared stories, values, and in previous generations mission if you will; survived despite the pogroms, and attacks, exiles, and holocausts.  We the Jewish People, a nation within a nation, are still here.

            Alan Hoffman, director of education for the Jewish Agency of Israel offered an explanation of Jewish Peoplehood in an interview in Shma magazine:

The unique character of Judaism, the combination of religion and ethnicity was shaped by the formative experience of living in Diaspora unconnected to soil and boundaries so typical of most other nations.  We are therefore a spiritual community, a sociological entity, a series of ethnic islands, a conglomeration that is difficult to pry apart.

The notion of a Jewish “People” in relationship – something larger than individual existence gives many Jews a sense of connectedness to a bigger something which is especially important as collective bonds weaken in the general society and also among Jews.  But a danger lurks if this becomes a diluted lowest common denominator concept, not nearly as powerful or robust as Jewish religious identity or national identity.” (As quoted in the “The Case for Jewish Peoplehood, Can we be One?” Brown and Galperin, Jewish Lights, 2009 originally in Shma 37,2006 “Challenging Peoplehood” Berrins and Hoffman, http://www.shma.com/2006/10/challenging-peoplehood/)

The worries of the rabbis I talk to echo Hoffman’s questions.   The rabbis ask – are we at that point… that our robust identity as the Jewish People is fading as our shared mission, values and ideals and facility with our shared language hold less sway.

Robert Putnam in his famous book, “Bowling Alone” recognized that we are often less socially connected than ever before.  From research of over half a million interviews Putnam concluded that we are more disconnected from family and institutions that ever before.  If we believe Putnam, and Jewish demongraphers like Steven Cohen, the old structures, like Peoplehood, are falling. There are simply less Jews.  We don’t reproduce. We don’t raise our children Jewishly.  We move in and out of the larger cultural so freely that when we can make decision about identity, when we have the individual autonomy to choose Judaism and identification we often don’t choose at all. We say we don’t “believe in God” so why engage in acts of belonging.  We fall in love with someone who isn’t Jewish and so we see ourselves outside the tent or we are pulled outside because we don’t want to rock the boat.   

As political scientist Daniel Elazar describes, “The Jewish community is a “unique blend of kinship and consent.”  (p. 41,The Case for Jewish Peoplehood)

As Erica Brown and Misha Galperin write  in their book “The Case for Jewish Peoplehood “Jews no longer share a common language of ritual practice and Jewish law nor are we joined by a shared insecurity of oppression or persecution.   In the absences of these historical markers, the Jewish community of the 21st century is struggling for a shred language of anything.”

  In other words, when you have the choice to opt in or easily opt out and when we no longer can speak to one another across the great divide of Jewish texts and literacy what will be the future of the Jewish People?   Are we merely left to some gustatory sense of Jewish life—bagels, corned beef and hummus? Or is there something deeper that ought to connect us?

My contention is and was that we hunger for more than a shared recipe.  We hunger for deep and meaningful connections and spirit.  But this doesn’t just come wafting down from heaven… rather it comes from a sense of mutual responsibility and mutual concern.  It comes from an attitude of commitment and connection and inspiring one another to build bonds of profound strength even when the world is in turmoil.  And perhaps because the world and the economy is in such turmoil we need the safety and sacred space of the Jewish People more than ever before.   I believe the bonds of Jewish Peoplehood are not just passive but must be actively nurtured and we once again as a sacred community we must find a shared language of mission and values and yes, faith in the enduring principles of Judaism.

This is the challenge I place before as this New Year begins.  How will we bridge the great divide between our concerns and our our actions?  How can we as a Jewish people gathered at the New Year here with our loved ones take one step to strengthen our own personal connection to the Jewish people and therefore uplift the Jewish project?  What are you willing to do to learn and speak this shared language of the Jewish spirit?

On the one hand I hear so often “Rabbi I want spirituality. I want connection.  I want to live a life of meaning.”  But I see so few of you willing to engage in the process that can provide the depth and breadth of that platform to stand on.   Ironically, the pathways to building that deeper sense of order, meaning and spirit are exactly the things that will bolster and help the Jewish people endure!  They actually go hand in hand!

And so in this respect I propose the following and challenge every member of this congregation to engage in three acts this coming year that will deepen your connection to the Jewish People.  I challenge you to take one of the myriad of Adult Education opportunities before you.   At Kol Ami we are offering more adult learning than ever before.   There will be text study in the form of monthly Bible encounters, Jewish current events, Torah chanting classes, author presentations and even a trip to Israel.  There is monthly family learning with our children.  In the busyness of our lives I challenge you to go deeper to learn at an adult level something more about your Jewish life, challenge your mind and challenge your soul with learning about who you are amongst this people.

The second challenge to you this New Year’s Day is to engage in acts of religious life.  Whether that is come to some of our holy day celebrations like Sukkot or Simchat Torah, Chanukah or Yom Ha-aztmaut or light candles in your home each Shabbat.  Do something affirmative that connects you ritually to the ancient life of the Jewish people. 

Ritual is hard.  It is harder still when we are single or don’t have traditional families.   But the disconnect builds when we lazily give in to a rhythm of secular life.  I challenge this community and congregation to do more than just the High Holy Days but to explore your Jewish spirituality through affirming Jewish timeless acts. 

The third and final challenge I make to you on this New Year’s Day in the name of preserving Jewish peoplehood is to engage in the call of the Prophets:  To Do justice-to engage in acts of Tikkun Olam consciously as a Jewish Act.  Fill up those brown bags that our ushers give out for Sova.  Walk with Team Kol Ami in the AIDS Walk.   Help us donate solar cookers in Africa with Jewish World Watch.  Work with other people of faith to stop the political initiative that would nullify the Fair ACT signed this summer by Governor Brown that would keep gay people invisible in the discussion of history.

Many of you serve on non-profit boards or volunteer your time with great organizations.   But how many of you do this as a conscious Jewish act?  How many of you do this as a true Mitzvah-a command to heal our world?  How many of you place your service-sacred service in the context of your Jewish values and ideals rather than just a sense of noblesse oblige.

What are you willing to do to ensure that this eternal people-the Jewish people survives?  What are you willing to do in this New Year to deepen your connections and deepen your spirituality?  What ways are you willing to opt in to help build the case for the Jewish people as an eternal people?  The more we engage; the more opportunities to create shared conversations among the various groups within Jewish life today.  We have made great strides. We sit at tables where once we did not.  But we risk something greater if it is only rabbis having this conversation-this is a shared enterprise-the life of the Jewish people.  And we need you in not only the conversation but in the effort to shape the future!

On one of our Torah covers is a phrase from Pirke Avot:  Marbeh Torah; Marbeh Chayim-the more Torah the more Life.  Engaging in Torah, in Study, in practice, in song and prayer, in acts of justice enriches our individual lives and it enriches and sustains the life of the Jewish people.

So hear the call of the Shofar this year as a call home to the Jewish People. Hear its blast enticing you to help the eternal values and principles of Jewish life and identity be brought into our daily consciousness and daily actions.  Hear the Shofar awakening you to the urgency of the task and urgency of the hour.

Eli Eli Shelo yigamer L’olam…. O God, My God I pray that these things never end- the sand and the sea, the rush of the water, the life of the Jewish People. 

Ken Yehi Ratzon.

So may it be God’s will.

Rosh Hashanah- The Case for Jewish People Hood? Can we be One?

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Shanah Tovah

Happy New Year Everyone!

For the last three years I have had a unique view of the Jewish People.  First, as President of the Pacific Association of Reform Rabbis, the Western Region and largest Region of the Central Conference of American Rabbis.  I led more than 450 Reform rabbis from Vancouver to El Paso, from Utah to New Zealand.  And for the past two years as President of the Board of Rabbis of Southern California, sponsored by The Los Angeles Jewish Federation but serving rabbis of all denominations, Orthodox, Conservative, Reform, Reconstructionist, from San Luis Obisbo to the Mexican Border. It was unique in that I was the first woman ever to do so.  And it allowed a type of conversation that hasn’t happened before.

 I have had a chance to visit congregations, talk with rabbis serving in schools and Hillels on college campuses. I talked with rabbis who serve in our federal prisons and chaplains in hospitals and young rabbis who are chaplains in the military and have served in Iraq and Afghanistan.  I have communicated regularly with the senior rabbis of the largest congregations with large rabbinic staffs and rabbis of small solo pulpits, rabbis who work in Jewish education, rabbis who are counselors or work in Jewish organizational life, with retired colleagues, with rabbis who teach in day schools and university, rabbis who are unemployed because of the changing nature of the economy and its impact on the Jewish institutional world.  I have had a chance to talk with them about their lives and the life and state of the Jewish People.  
            One of the continuing conversations among rabbis of all stripes from the most liberal to the most stringent is a conversation that I would like to share with you this morning.   “What is the State of the Jewish People? Can the Jewish People Survive? And can the Jewish People be One?”

During my term as President of the Board of Rabbis the continuing theme that I believed that was symbolic of my tenure as the first woman and first lesbian to ascend to be chair of the board was the idea of Klal Yisrael—the universal principle of the People Israel.  That despite our differences in the way we sing or pray that there is more that connects us than divides us. We can argue over Torah interpretation.  This is what our ancestors did and this is what is recorded in the pages of Talmud.  But most importantly the principle of Klal Yisrael means first and foremost that we are one People. We must care for one another for our fellow Jews even as we are concerned about the fate of all humanity; That we Jews have a responsibility to one another.   Kol Yisrael arvaim ze bazeh- That to survive in this fast paced contemporary setting that is the 21st century we have to opt in –to one another. 

But there are those who disagree. 

Many believe that the Jewish world like the larger world is more fractious, more divided and less connected than ever before despite technology.  Many believe the gap between the haredim, our Orthodox religious fundamentalists and those of us on the progressive wing of Judaism is insurmountable. Many in the Jewish world including sociologist Steven Bayme believe the divisiveness we see over the role of the modern state of Israel and our beliefs about how to bring peace to that troubled spot is emblematic of the vast divide.  His contention is  that we cannot speak civilly with one another shows that we are not one. And therefore we cannot care for one another. 

The divided nature of the Jewish people and Jewish community is further disconnected along generational lines according to research. Young Millennial Jews want no part of established institutions instead preferring to create their own connections but then find that they are unsustainable financially and fleeting at best. In an article this summer in the Jewish Daily Forward, “Funding Jewish Peoplehood, Misha Galperin the new CEO and President of Jewish Agency International Development writes:  :

(Read more: http://forward.com/articles/139464/#ixzz1Yu5sMU00)

 “Having been raised in a world of pluralism and tolerance, Jews younger than 45 do not necessarily privilege their Jewish brothers and sisters above others when it comes to friendship, marriage, volunteerism and charitable giving."  

Increasingly we then must ask Can the Jewish People be one?  And Is there even a Case for Jewish Peoplehood?

For millennia we have referred to our group-as the Jewish Nation  Am Yisrael.  The Nation of Israel-not Israelis-citizens of the modern state of Israel although the Jewish ones are too part of Am Yisrael.  But beyond the idea that Judaism-is a religion-we Jews  have believed that we have a connection that goes deeper.  That is yes, in part biological but not exclusively biological because we welcome those who choose Judaism.  We are a group with a shared ancient history and myths and legends collected in the narratives of our group-in the Torah, and the Bible, in our Talmud and Midrash.  We are a group that has core values and ideals that have been passed l’dor vador-from generation to generation, even as each generation has made its own mark to shape those values and ideals.

We have a sacred language – Hebrew- even as we spoke the other languages of the world.  And we have had a tie to a sacred place – Eretz Yisrael, the Land of Israel. The land of Zion – a place in our history which was real and from which we were forcibly exiled time and again-finally to return in recent memory of the 20th century. 

     But for most of our history we were a nation without borders.  We were a nation, a group , an ethnicity, that went beyond geographical considerations because of the exile of the Jews. That is how we can lovingly play that important Jewish parlor game---Jewish geography! I know you have all done it…Do you know so and so? Their family came from…. Not even six degrees of separation when we are talking about Jews. 
       In Hebrew the word Peoplehood is ammiyut…. And this idea has struck a deep chord among us –that somehow, beyond a religion or faith (as is sometimes used by Christians) beyond nationality or ethnicity (since we also hold passports from the modern nations of the world), beyond clan or tribe since ten of them where carried off in exile by the Assyrians, somehow we the Jewish people with our shared stories, values, and in previous generations mission if you will; survived despite the pogroms, and attacks, exiles, and holocausts.  We the Jewish People, a nation within a nation, are still here.

            Alan Hoffman, director of education for the Jewish Agency of Israel offered an explanation of Jewish Peoplehood in an interview in Shma magazine:

The unique character of Judaism, the combination of religion and ethnicity was shaped by the formative experience of living in Diaspora unconnected to soil and boundaries so typical of most other nations.  We are therefore a spiritual community, a sociological entity, a series of ethnic islands, a conglomeration that is difficult to pry apart.

The notion of a Jewish “People” in relationship – something larger than individual existence gives many Jews a sense of connectedness to a bigger something which is especially important as collective bonds weaken in the general society and also among Jews.  But a danger lurks if this becomes a diluted lowest common denominator concept, not nearly as powerful or robust as Jewish religious identity or national identity.” (As quoted in the “The Case for Jewish Peoplehood, Can we be One?” Brown and Galperin, Jewish Lights, 2009 originally in Shma 37,2006 “Challenging Peoplehood” Berrins and Hoffman, http://www.shma.com/2006/10/challenging-peoplehood/)

The worries of the rabbis I talk to echo Hoffman’s questions.   The rabbis ask – are we at that point… that our robust identity as the Jewish People is fading as our shared mission, values and ideals and facility with our shared language hold less sway.

Robert Putnam in his famous book, “Bowling Alone” recognized that we are often less socially connected than ever before.  From research of over half a million interviews Putnam concluded that we are more disconnected from family and institutions that ever before.  If we believe Putnam, and Jewish demongraphers like Steven Cohen, the old structures, like Peoplehood, are falling. There are simply less Jews.  We don’t reproduce. We don’t raise our children Jewishly.  We move in and out of the larger cultural so freely that when we can make decision about identity, when we have the individual autonomy to choose Judaism and identification we often don’t choose at all. We say we don’t “believe in God” so why engage in acts of belonging.  We fall in love with someone who isn’t Jewish and so we see ourselves outside the tent or we are pulled outside because we don’t want to rock the boat.   

As political scientist Daniel Elazar describes, “The Jewish community is a “unique blend of kinship and consent.”  (p. 41,The Case for Jewish Peoplehood)

As Erica Brown and Misha Galperin write  in their book “The Case for Jewish Peoplehood “Jews no longer share a common language of ritual practice and Jewish law nor are we joined by a shared insecurity of oppression or persecution.   In the absences of these historical markers, the Jewish community of the 21st century is struggling for a shred language of anything.”

  In other words, when you have the choice to opt in or easily opt out and when we no longer can speak to one another across the great divide of Jewish texts and literacy what will be the future of the Jewish People?   Are we merely left to some gustatory sense of Jewish life—bagels, corned beef and hummus? Or is there something deeper that ought to connect us?

My contention is and was that we hunger for more than a shared recipe.  We hunger for deep and meaningful connections and spirit.  But this doesn’t just come wafting down from heaven… rather it comes from a sense of mutual responsibility and mutual concern.  It comes from an attitude of commitment and connection and inspiring one another to build bonds of profound strength even when the world is in turmoil.  And perhaps because the world and the economy is in such turmoil we need the safety and sacred space of the Jewish People more than ever before.   I believe the bonds of Jewish Peoplehood are not just passive but must be actively nurtured and we once again as a sacred community we must find a shared language of mission and values and yes, faith in the enduring principles of Judaism.

This is the challenge I place before as this New Year begins.  How will we bridge the great divide between our concerns and our our actions?  How can we as a Jewish people gathered at the New Year here with our loved ones take one step to strengthen our own personal connection to the Jewish people and therefore uplift the Jewish project?  What are you willing to do to learn and speak this shared language of the Jewish spirit?

On the one hand I hear so often “Rabbi I want spirituality. I want connection.  I want to live a life of meaning.”  But I see so few of you willing to engage in the process that can provide the depth and breadth of that platform to stand on.   Ironically, the pathways to building that deeper sense of order, meaning and spirit are exactly the things that will bolster and help the Jewish people endure!  They actually go hand in hand!

And so in this respect I propose the following and challenge every member of this congregation to engage in three acts this coming year that will deepen your connection to the Jewish People.  I challenge you to take one of the myriad of Adult Education opportunities before you.   At Kol Ami we are offering more adult learning than ever before.   There will be text study in the form of monthly Bible encounters, Jewish current events, Torah chanting classes, author presentations and even a trip to Israel.  There is monthly family learning with our children.  In the busyness of our lives I challenge you to go deeper to learn at an adult level something more about your Jewish life, challenge your mind and challenge your soul with learning about who you are amongst this people.

The second challenge to you this New Year’s Day is to engage in acts of religious life.  Whether that is come to some of our holy day celebrations like Sukkot or Simchat Torah, Chanukah or Yom Ha-aztmaut or light candles in your home each Shabbat.  Do something affirmative that connects you ritually to the ancient life of the Jewish people. 

Ritual is hard.  It is harder still when we are single or don’t have traditional families.   But the disconnect builds when we lazily give in to a rhythm of secular life.  I challenge this community and congregation to do more than just the High Holy Days but to explore your Jewish spirituality through affirming Jewish timeless acts. 

The third and final challenge I make to you on this New Year’s Day in the name of preserving Jewish peoplehood is to engage in the call of the Prophets:  To Do justice-to engage in acts of Tikkun Olam consciously as a Jewish Act.  Fill up those brown bags that our ushers give out for Sova.  Walk with Team Kol Ami in the AIDS Walk.   Help us donate solar cookers in Africa with Jewish World Watch.  Work with other people of faith to stop the political initiative that would nullify the Fair ACT signed this summer by Governor Brown that would keep gay people invisible in the discussion of history.

Many of you serve on non-profit boards or volunteer your time with great organizations.   But how many of you do this as a conscious Jewish act?  How many of you do this as a true Mitzvah-a command to heal our world?  How many of you place your service-sacred service in the context of your Jewish values and ideals rather than just a sense of noblesse oblige.

What are you willing to do to ensure that this eternal people-the Jewish people survives?  What are you willing to do in this New Year to deepen your connections and deepen your spirituality?  What ways are you willing to opt in to help build the case for the Jewish people as an eternal people?  The more we engage; the more opportunities to create shared conversations among the various groups within Jewish life today.  We have made great strides. We sit at tables where once we did not.  But we risk something greater if it is only rabbis having this conversation-this is a shared enterprise-the life of the Jewish people.  And we need you in not only the conversation but in the effort to shape the future!

On one of our Torah covers is a phrase from Pirke Avot:  Marbeh Torah; Marbeh Chayim-the more Torah the more Life.  Engaging in Torah, in Study, in practice, in song and prayer, in acts of justice enriches our individual lives and it enriches and sustains the life of the Jewish people.

So hear the call of the Shofar this year as a call home to the Jewish People. Hear its blast enticing you to help the eternal values and principles of Jewish life and identity be brought into our daily consciousness and daily actions.  Hear the Shofar awakening you to the urgency of the task and urgency of the hour.

Eli Eli Shelo yigamer L’olam…. O God, My God I pray that these things never end- the sand and the sea, the rush of the water, the life of the Jewish People. 

Ken Yehi Ratzon.

So may it be God’s will.

Erev Rosh Hashanah- Inscribe the Sacred Story in the Book of Life(2)

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Shanah Tovah.  Happy New Year.  It is good to see you all again.

It is hard to believe that a New Year has arrived.  Where did the old one go?  Were we not just here together in this place?  I don’t only mean the physical space of Immanuel Presbyterian : but in this spiritual place-of reviewing and examining our deeds. Reviewing and examining who we’ve become and imagining who we would like to be.  It seems we just were doing this very task not a few months ago.

That is what this holy day period is about—Imagination and creativity.  Beginning today and for the next ten days you have a chance to make yourself over; to re-imagine yourself; to create yourself anew.  You have Divine permission to rid yourself of that which holds you back, or that which you see as personal flaws.  Most of us work out physically trying to re-shape our bodies or keep our health at optimum levels.  But during this season we are encouraged to  re-shape your character and the inner you during the Ten Days of Awe.  You have permission and holy encouragement to become the person that you can imagine!

Several weeks after a young man had been hired he was called into the personnel director’s office. “What is the meaning of this?” the director asked, “When you applied for this job, you told us you had five years’ experience. Now we’ve discovered this is the first job you’ve ever held.’

“Well,” the young man replied. “In your advertisement you said you wanted somebody with imagination.”

Today God wants you to use your imagination and your creativity. Rosh Hashanah calls out to you to be a person with imagination!

 In other words: Imagineering is not just for Walt Disney.  Perhaps you are not familiar with the Imagineers.  But this is a creative group within the Walt Disney Company. It is the design and development arm of the company and is responsible for much of the Walt Disney theme parks, everything from layout to rides.  The term imagineers however was not coined by Disney. Rather it came from ALCOA, the Aluminum Company of American in the 1940’s to describe engineering and imagination. This term was adopted by Disney a decade later.

But this term describes exactly what we are to do during this holy day time.  We are to re-engineer ourselves.  We are about to take out the flaws and the errors and the mistakes and work out a new formula for success.  We are to imagine how we ought to be in the world and how we ought to get there.

Thus think of yourself beginning tonight –as an Imagineer.  You hold the key to your future in your hands by the introspection that you do. It is time to redraw the lay-out and improve yourself.  Rosh Hashanah is about renewing the commitment to overcoming character flaws, correcting mistakes and sins, tossing out bad habits and the dedication to imagine a new life, a life that is more just and ethical.  It is time in this New Year for a new you.

We Jews do this remembering on Rosh Hashanah because this is the celebration of the creation of the Universe. Just as God created the world on Rosh Hashanah we are now creating our world anew!  Just as God imagined and engineered the universe with a Bang! We imagineer our lives for the coming year. 

We Jews say this is Yom Harat Olam-the Day the World was conceived.  And today I am asking each of you to reconceive your world.  How might you live a more holy life? How might you re-think troubled relationships? How might you stop those bad habits that detract from the quality of your daily life? How might you reinvigorate your life with direction, heart and Jewish ideals?

          But to reimagine ourselves we first must encounter our own story: As Muriel Rukeyser says: “The universe is made of stories, not atoms” 

We have to tell the story of ourselves.  Our Bible does that.  It tells stories: stories about people’s lives. Your ancestors’ lives.  Abraham and Sarah, Isaac and Rebekkah, King David, Queen Esther, The Torah tells the story of the Jewish People.  It doesn’t sugar coat the story.  Our ancestors lives are on display flaws and all.  Abraham defends strangers but not his own son to God.  Sarah is jealous of Hagar. Rebekkah urges her son Jacob to deceive his father, King David commits adultery with Queen Bathsheba and has her husband killed.  And yet he is still known as the greatest king of Israel for his other achievements.  Our stories, Jewish stories tell it like it is, successes and achievements and trouble spots as well.  Stories are the heart of our lives.

     Our holidays do the same. At Passover we sit down to a Seder meal and retell the story of the Exodus from Egypt and we act out that story through traditional questions, foods and songs. 

But on Rosh Hashanah if you don’t tell your story, if you don’t really know your own story-how can you imagine your future?  What is the story of you? Tonight on Rosh Hashanah I want to urge you to think about your own narrative.  The story of the last year as well as the story you want to unfold in the New Year.

According to a “Story Based Strategy for Change by Doyle Canning and Patrick Reinsbouorgh (http://smartmeme.org/downloads/smartMeme.ReImaginingChange.pdf)”

A Harvard University evolutionary psychologist Steven Pinker argues that stories are essential to human learning and building relationships in social groups. There is growing consensus in the scientific community that the neurological roots of both storytelling and enjoyment of stories are tied to our social cognition.

.         In one widely cited 1944 experiment, psychologists Fritz Heider and Mary-Ann Simmel showed subjects “an animation of a pair of triangles and a circle moving around a square,” and asked what was happening. The subjects’ responses (i.e. “The circle is chasing the triangles.”) revealed how they mapped a narrative onto the shapes. Numerous subsequent studies have reiterated how humans, as social creatures, see stories everywhere.  

                   In other words we make up stories to explain our world, to synthesize it, to make sense and order of our lives.  Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur are here to help us explain our story –to ourselves and others.  We are to try and figure out why we became who we did in the last year, fix it, edit our behaviors, and change our story. We have the power to re-write our story.

         

          Is it any wonder that one of the important images for the High Holy Day Season is “Sefer HaChayim?” The Book of Life?  We know that we are supposed to place our story and inscribe our name in the Book of Life. In the Talmud (Rosh Hashanah 16b) we learn

R. Kruspedai said in the name of R. Yohanan:  On Rosh HaShanah, three books are opened-- one with the names of the completely wicked, one with the names of the completely righteous, and one with the names of those who are neither completely righteous nor completely wicked.  The completely righteous:  their verdict—life—is written down and sealed at once.  Those neither completely righteous nor completely wicked:  their verdict is suspended between New Year's Day and the Day of Atonement.  (between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur)

If they are deemed to deserve it [by resolving to repent], they are inscribed for life; if [they fail to repent] and therefore deemed not to deserve life, they are inscribed for death.

This tradition is there to teach us that we have the power to change the story, change that inscription, change the outcome!  We have to engineer that change through our intentions and our deeds and sincere repentance.  This idea that it rests with us-is reinforced in our liturgy—We say Teshuvah, tefillah utzedakah—Repentance, prayer and charity avert the decree.  We have tools on our Jewish tool belt to assist us in this process of changing, and of reimagining our lives, and re-writing our story in the Sefer HaChayim- the B ook of Life.

          The Rabbis understood that this was a metaphor-to help us re-imagine who we were to be in the coming year.   The Sages understood that human beings, created in the image of the Divine One had creative powers herself-to create our realities, our path ways. 
          But to do so we had to visit the past, know our story, and then re-write its plot!

So if you have veered from the good during the past year. If you have hurt with words or deeds others or yourself, over the course of the next Ten Days-you have the ability to change the story-change your story in the Book of Life. 

You can create a good outcome –when you see the good in your story, in yourself and in others.

For it is that Good—The deeds of a righteous and good life that will transform not just our own lives but the life of the world.

The Talmud shares this tale:

One day Rabbi Yochanan Ben Zakkai gathered his disciples around him and said to them, “I have a very important task for you. I want you to go out into the world and search out

the ways of men to see what is truly good in humanity. Then return to me and tell me what you have found.”
     As always, the disciples did as their teacher asked. They walked among people of every class and occupation, every background and lot in life. After a time, when each believed that he had found what was truly good in people, they returned to the rabbi to report what they had learned.

“So tell me,” said Rabbi Yochanan, first addressing Rabbi Eliezeer. “What have you found to be truly good?”

“A good eye,” Eliezer replied. “For those who have a good eye have an eye for the suffering of others. So they are led to be generous.”
“Well said,” the teacher nodded.

“And you, Rabbi Yehoshua, what have you found to be truly good?” 

“A good friend,” he answered. “A man should not only cultivate a good friend but should himself be a good friend. That is how life takes on value. For a friend has no price and is more precious than gold.’
“You too have spoken well.” The rabbi answered. Then, turning to Rabbi Yose, he asked, “What have you learned?”

“I have learned, “said Yose, “that a good neighbor is truly good. A person cannot live in isolation from others but needs company in order to be truly good. It is from a good neighbor that we learn how to be a good neighbor.”

“We all may learn from what you have learned,” Rabbi Yochanan commented. “But I wonder what Rabbi Shimon has found to be truly good.”

“I have found that the person who looks ahead and attends to the consequences of her actions is truly good,” said Rabbi Shimon. “Our deeds create angels for good or for evil, and the angels we create go out into the world to do good or evil. Thus our every move, our every thought, disturbs the entire universe and affects human lives.’
“What you say is profound,” said Rabbi Yochanan. “Listen well all of you, to Rabbi Shimon. 

But we have not yet heard from Rabbi Eleazar.”

The disciples and their teacher turned to Rabbi Eleazar, prepared to listen to his discourse on what is truly good in humanity. But all he said was: “A good heart is truly good.”

At this their teacher smiled and declared, “I prefer the worlds of Eleazar ben Arach to all of your words combined. In his words are contained your words. A good heart sees rightly, and seeks out other human beings, loving our neighbor, as the Torah commands us; And a good heart looks not only ahead but also above, loving God as the Torah commands us as well. Yes, Rabbi Eleazar has spoken well.”  

A Good heart is the goal of this Holy Day season-to bring out your sacred story and uncover your good heart.  A heart that is open to the possibility of love and faith and kindness even in a world that is tough and angry and cruel.   A faith-filled life, a life where the Source of all Breath is honored and recognized has at its core a good heart. 

When we share our own narrative, and tell our story we bring out from the edge of darkness the good that lives in us. Sharing the narrative helps us reflect on making the changes that will help us reinstate that good heart towards all people. 

          When our stories are suppressed, when we can’t tell the truth of our lives, then the dark shadows of shame take hold.  The dark shadows keep us in its grip and keeps us from full participation in the world. It keeps us from wholeness, keeps us held down.  That is why we must reach out to the person sitting in the back row who is alone.  We have to acknowledge their humanity and their story. We can’t just look past people because then we ignore their story.  The homeless person on the street, do not avert your eyes because she has a story too.  The Jewish thing is to acknowledge the story and in the process we acknowledge their humanity. For we are all created in the Divine image.  You are as well. You have a story too.

Because when our stories are quashed the world is diminished and our worlds are diminished.  When our sacred stories are covered up, hidden then we cannot know what it means to come close to God and others.  But when our own sacred stories are brought to light, shared, told, and retold, and even re-written then that honesty and hopefulness allows us to let out our good hearts. 

          That is the beauty of of the sacred narrative-because it will transcend time.  It will be shared lador vador—from generation to generation as part of the collective memory of our people, of your family, of this community.  So write your story, share it, shape it in these holy days-erase that bad habits, correct the traits that have marred your soul.

Rosh Hashanah and these Ten Days of Awe and the process of Teshuvah-of turning our lives around is about bringing to light our story of self and working to bring our good heart back!

          So at this season of turning, at this season of re-imagining and rewriting, seek out the good heart at the kernel of your existence and bring that heart to the foreground.  Let the light of your good heart shine into the New Year and help change the direction- from sin to wholeness; from fear to courage; from weakness to strength; from despair to hope once again.

Ken Yehi Ratzon.

MailBits.com as quoted in “Bits and Pieces”  Ragan Commuications, July 2011, p. 8

1. From “The Secrets of Storytelling: Why we love a good yarn,” Scientific

American, September 18, 2008. We got this link from our friends at the Pop-Anthropology blog (http://www.thirsty-fish.com/popanthroblog/).

Ibid

The Greatest Jewish Stories Ever Told, David Patterson, based on Avot  2:9 pp 137-138

Erev Rosh Hashanah- Inscribe the Sacred Story in the Book of Life

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Shanah Tovah.  Happy New Year.  It is good to see you all again.

It is hard to believe that a New Year has arrived.  Where did the old one go?  Were we not just here together in this place?  I don’t only mean the physical space of Immanuel Presbyterian : but in this spiritual place-of reviewing and examining our deeds. Reviewing and examining who we’ve become and imagining who we would like to be.  It seems we just were doing this very task not a few months ago.

That is what this holy day period is about—Imagination and creativity.  Beginning today and for the next ten days you have a chance to make yourself over; to re-imagine yourself; to create yourself anew.  You have Divine permission to rid yourself of that which holds you back, or that which you see as personal flaws.  Most of us work out physically trying to re-shape our bodies or keep our health at optimum levels.  But during this season we are encouraged to  re-shape your character and the inner you during the Ten Days of Awe.  You have permission and holy encouragement to become the person that you can imagine!

Several weeks after a young man had been hired he was called into the personnel director’s office. “What is the meaning of this?” the director asked, “When you applied for this job, you told us you had five years’ experience. Now we’ve discovered this is the first job you’ve ever held.’

“Well,” the young man replied. “In your advertisement you said you wanted somebody with imagination.” #

Today God wants you to use your imagination and your creativity. Rosh Hashanah calls out to you to be a person with imagination!

In other words: Imagineering is not just for Walt Disney.  Perhaps you are not familiar with the Imagineers.  But this is a creative group within the Walt Disney Company. It is the design and development arm of the company and is responsible for much of the Walt Disney theme parks, everything from layout to rides.  The term imagineers however was not coined by Disney. Rather it came from ALCOA, the Aluminum Company of American in the 1940’s to describe engineering and imagination. This term was adopted by Disney a decade later.

But this term describes exactly what we are to do during this holy day time.  We are to re-engineer ourselves.  We are about to take out the flaws and the errors and the mistakes and work out a new formula for success.  We are to imagine how we ought to be in the world and how we ought to get there.

Thus think of yourself beginning tonight –as an Imagineer.  You hold the key to your future in your hands by the introspection that you do. It is time to redraw the lay-out and improve yourself.  Rosh Hashanah is about renewing the commitment to overcoming character flaws, correcting mistakes and sins, tossing out bad habits and the dedication to imagine a new life, a life that is more just and ethical.  It is time in this New Year for a new you.

We Jews do this remembering on Rosh Hashanah because this is the celebration of the creation of the Universe. Just as God created the world on Rosh Hashanah we are now creating our world anew!  Just as God imagined and engineered the universe with a Bang! We imagineer our lives for the coming year.  

We Jews say this is Yom Harat Olam-the Day the World was conceived.  And today I am asking each of you to reconceive your world.  How might you live a more holy life? How might you re-think troubled relationships? How might you stop those bad habits that detract from the quality of your daily life? How might you reinvigorate your life with direction, heart and Jewish ideals?

But to reimagine ourselves we first must encounter our own story: As Muriel Rukeyser says: “The universe is made of stories, not atoms”  
We have to tell the story of ourselves.  Our Bible does that.  It tells stories: stories about people’s lives. Your ancestors’ lives.  Abraham and Sarah, Isaac and Rebekkah, King David, Queen Esther, The Torah tells the story of the Jewish People.  It doesn’t sugar coat the story.  Our ancestors lives are on display flaws and all.  Abraham defends strangers but not his own son to God.  Sarah is jealous of Hagar. Rebekkah urges her son Jacob to deceive his father, King David commits adultery with Queen Bathsheba and has her husband killed.  And yet he is still known as the greatest king of Israel for his other achievements.  Our stories, Jewish stories tell it like it is, successes and achievements and trouble spots as well.  Stories are the heart of our lives.
    Our holidays do the same. At Passover we sit down to a Seder meal and retell the story of the Exodus from Egypt and we act out that story through traditional questions, foods and songs.  

But on Rosh Hashanah if you don’t tell your story, if you don’t really know your own story-how can you imagine your future?  What is the story of you? Tonight on Rosh Hashanah I want to urge you to think about your own narrative.  The story of the last year as well as the story you want to unfold in the New Year.

According to a “Story Based Strategy for Change by Doyle Canning and Patrick Reinsbouorgh (http://smartmeme.org/downloads/smartMeme.ReImaginingChange.pdf)”

A Harvard University evolutionary psychologist Steven Pinker argues that stories are essential to human learning and building relationships in social groups. There is growing consensus in the scientific community that the neurological roots of both storytelling and enjoyment of stories are tied to our social cognition.#

. In one widely cited 1944 experiment, psychologists Fritz Heider and Mary-Ann Simmel showed subjects “an animation of a pair of triangles and a circle moving around a square,” and asked what was happening. The subjects’ responses (i.e. “The circle is chasing the triangles.”) revealed how they mapped a narrative onto the shapes. Numerous subsequent studies have reiterated how humans, as social creatures, see stories everywhere.#

In other words we make up stories to explain our world, to synthesize it, to make sense and order of our lives.  Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur are here to help us explain our story –to ourselves and others.  We are to try and figure out why we became who we did in the last year, fix it, edit our behaviors, and change our story. We have the power to re-write our story.

Is it any wonder that one of the important images for the High Holy Day Season is “Sefer HaChayim?” The Book of Life?  We know that we are supposed to place our story and inscribe our name in the Book of Life. In the Talmud (Rosh Hashanah 16b) we learn

R. Kruspedai said in the name of R. Yohanan:  On Rosh HaShanah, three books are opened-- one with the names of the completely wicked, one with the names of the completely righteous, and one with the names of those who are neither completely righteous nor completely wicked.  The completely righteous:  their verdict—life—is written down and sealed at once.  Those neither completely righteous nor completely wicked:  their verdict is suspended between New Year's Day and the Day of Atonement.  (between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur)

If they are deemed to deserve it [by resolving to repent], they are inscribed for life; if [they fail to repent] and therefore deemed not to deserve life, they are inscribed for death.

This tradition is there to teach us that we have the power to change the story, change that inscription, change the outcome!  We have to engineer that change through our intentions and our deeds and sincere repentance.  This idea that it rests with us-is reinforced in our liturgy—We say Teshuvah, tefillah utzedakah—Repentance, prayer and charity avert the decree.  We have tools on our Jewish tool belt to assist us in this process of changing, and of reimagining our lives, and re-writing our story in the Sefer HaChayim- the B ook of Life.
The Rabbis understood that this was a metaphor-to help us re-imagine who we were to be in the coming year.   The Sages understood that human beings, created in the image of the Divine One had creative powers herself-to create our realities, our path ways.  
But to do so we had to visit the past, know our story, and then re-write its plot!
So if you have veered from the good during the past year. If you have hurt with words or deeds others or yourself, over the course of the next Ten Days-you have the ability to change the story-change your story in the Book of Life.  

You can create a good outcome –when you see the good in your story, in yourself and in others.

For it is that Good—The deeds of a righteous and good life that will transform not just our own lives but the life of the world.

The Talmud shares this tale:

One day Rabbi Yochanan Ben Zakkai gathered his disciples around him and said to them, “I have a very important task for you. I want you to go out into the world and search out

the ways of men to see what is truly good in humanity. Then return to me and tell me what you have found.”
    As always, the disciples did as their teacher asked. They walked among people of every class and occupation, every background and lot in life. After a time, when each believed that he had found what was truly good in people, they returned to the rabbi to report what they had learned.

“So tell me,” said Rabbi Yochanan, first addressing Rabbi Eliezeer. “What have you found to be truly good?”

“A good eye,” Eliezer replied. “For those who have a good eye have an eye for the suffering of others. So they are led to be generous.”
“Well said,” the teacher nodded.

“And you, Rabbi Yehoshua, what have you found to be truly good?”  

“A good friend,” he answered. “A man should not only cultivate a good friend but should himself be a good friend. That is how life takes on value. For a friend has no price and is more precious than gold.’
“You too have spoken well.” The rabbi answered. Then, turning to Rabbi Yose, he asked, “What have you learned?”

“I have learned, “said Yose, “that a good neighbor is truly good. A person cannot live in isolation from others but needs company in order to be truly good. It is from a good neighbor that we learn how to be a good neighbor.”

“We all may learn from what you have learned,” Rabbi Yochanan commented. “But I wonder what Rabbi Shimon has found to be truly good.”

“I have found that the person who looks ahead and attends to the consequences of her actions is truly good,” said Rabbi Shimon. “Our deeds create angels for good or for evil, and the angels we create go out into the world to do good or evil. Thus our every move, our every thought, disturbs the entire universe and affects human lives.’
“What you say is profound,” said Rabbi Yochanan. “Listen well all of you, to Rabbi Shimon.  

But we have not yet heard from Rabbi Eleazar.”

The disciples and their teacher turned to Rabbi Eleazar, prepared to listen to his discourse on what is truly good in humanity. But all he said was: “A good heart is truly good.”

At this their teacher smiled and declared, “I prefer the worlds of Eleazar ben Arach to all of your words combined. In his words are contained your words. A good heart sees rightly, and seeks out other human beings, loving our neighbor, as the Torah commands us; And a good heart looks not only ahead but also above, loving God as the Torah commands us as well. Yes, Rabbi Eleazar has spoken well.”   #

A Good heart is the goal of this Holy Day season-to bring out your sacred story and uncover your good heart.  A heart that is open to the possibility of love and faith and kindness even in a world that is tough and angry and cruel.   A faith-filled life, a life where the Source of all Breath is honored and recognized has at its core a good heart.  

When we share our own narrative, and tell our story we bring out from the edge of darkness the good that lives in us. Sharing the narrative helps us reflect on making the changes that will help us reinstate that good heart towards all people.  

When our stories are suppressed, when we can’t tell the truth of our lives, then the dark shadows of shame take hold.  The dark shadows keep us in its grip and keeps us from full participation in the world. It keeps us from wholeness, keeps us held down.  That is why we must reach out to the person sitting in the back row who is alone.  We have to acknowledge their humanity and their story. We can’t just look past people because then we ignore their story.  The homeless person on the street, do not avert your eyes because she has a story too.  The Jewish thing is to acknowledge the story and in the process we acknowledge their humanity. For we are all created in the Divine image.  You are as well. You have a story too.


Because when our stories are quashed the world is diminished and our worlds are diminished.  When our sacred stories are covered up, hidden then we cannot know what it means to come close to God and others.  But when our own sacred stories are brought to light, shared, told, and retold, and even re-written then that honesty and hopefulness allows us to let out our good hearts.  

That is the beauty of of the sacred narrative-because it will transcend time.  It will be shared lador vador—from generation to generation as part of the collective memory of our people, of your family, of this community.  So write your story, share it, shape it in these holy days-erase that bad habits, correct the traits that have marred your soul.

Rosh Hashanah and these Ten Days of Awe and the process of Teshuvah-of turning our lives around is about bringing to light our story of self and working to bring our good heart back!

So at this season of turning, at this season of re-imagining and rewriting, seek out the good heart at the kernel of your existence and bring that heart to the foreground.  Let the light of your good heart shine into the New Year and help change the direction- from sin to wholeness; from fear to courage; from weakness to strength; from despair to hope once again.

Ken Yehi Ratzon.


        





Sukkot Sermon

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Shabbat Shalom
This holiday of Sukkot is known as Zman Simchateinu.  Season of our rejoicing.  We are commanded to celebrate with joy and delight. Even as we enter into our simple sukkah-our simple lean to with openings in the roof to see the stars we are to rejoice and celebrate with joy during this week long festival. In ancient times it was HeChag-THE Festival. When you said it like that everyone knew you meant Sukkot. It took on even a more important celebratory feel than any other holy day.  
Author Jill SuzanneJacobs author of  “Hebrew for Dummies”  writes:

On Sukkot, we have only three obligations: to dwell in the sukkah or booth that is intended to be an impermanent structure; to wave the *four species which make up a long palm-like branch called thelulav-a combination of myrtle, palm, willow-and the esrog or lemon-like fruit; and finally to be happy and rejoice. This is in sharp contrast to observing Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur where we spend hours in the synagogue praying and contemplating, reviewing our misdeeds and vowing to change for the better. (http://www.jewishfederations.org/page.aspx?id=17188)


This is a holiday about abundance. The abundance of the harvest.  The abundance of family and friends that we welcome into the sukkah.  The abundance that we ought to recognize in our lives-not material wealth but those aspects of life that bring deep and abiding contentment and peace. A inner space of strength and confidence in life and the world and ourselves even as we live in a fragile hut, symbolizing the fragility of the world around us.

The megillah we read on this holiday the book of Ecclesisastes, traditional said to have been written by King Solomon near the end of his life offers us these words:  

24 A person can do nothing better than to eat and drink and find satisfaction in their own toil. This too, I see, is from the hand of God, 25 for without him, who can eat or find enjoyment? 26 To the person who pleases him, God gives wisdom, knowledge and happiness, but to the sinner he gives the task of gathering and storing up wealth to hand it over to the one who pleases God. This too is meaningless, a chasing after the wind.

For King Solomon he recognizes that amassing wealth, my bring pleasure but in the end it is vanities, meaningless for contentment comes from being at peace with ones self and right with ones God.  

This is the message of this holy day time.  Being a fully present, actualized person who isn’t always looking over your shoulder for validation or affirmation from others. But being able to live your life with the inner peace that God loves you and made you as you are.  
The holiday of Sukkot—where we build a tabernacle of peace-is the meeting place where we meet the Divine one and our divine and holy ancestors.  We pray to welcome the ushpizin and ushpiziot to our Sukkah.  This is symbolic for us to embrace our past even as we try to find a place of shalom inside our own beings.  But we Jews do not do this alone. We do this in the context of community.  

The Unpopular Tzaddik
(http://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/2618/jewish/The-Unpopular-Tzaddik.htm)
By Yerachmiel Tilles
Rabbi Pinchas of Koretz was a spiritual giant in his generation. At first, his greatness was mostly unknown to his contemporaries, but he had no regrets; indeed, it suited him just fine. He spent his days and nights in Torah-study, prayer and meditation. Rarely was he interrupted.
But then, the word began to spread, perhaps from fellow disciples of Rabbi Israel Baal Shem Tov, that Rabbi Pinchas was very, very special. People began to visit him on a regular basis, seeking his guidance, requesting his support, asking for his prayers and beseeching his blessing. The more he helped them, the more they came. The trickle to his door became a stream and the stream became a daily flood of personal stories and requests for help.
Rabbi Pinchas was overwhelmed. He felt he was no longer serving G-dproperly, because he no longer had sufficient time to study, pray and meditate as he should. He didn't know what to do. He needed more privacy and less distraction, but how could he turn away dozens and even hundreds of people who genuinely felt that he could help them? How could he convince them to go elsewhere, to others more willing and qualified than he?
Then he had an idea. He would pray for heavenly help in the matter. Let G-d arrange it that people not be attracted to seek him out! Let G-d make him be despicable in the eyes of his fellows!
"A tzaddik decrees and Heaven agrees," they say. Rabbi Pinchas prayed and so it became. No longer did people visit him. Not only that, on those occasions when he went to town, he was met with averted heads and a chilly atmosphere.
Rabbi Pinchas didn't mind at all. Indeed, he was delighted. The old pattern was restored; rarely was he interrupted.
Then the "Days of Awe" of Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur passed, and there remained only four brief busy days to prepare for the Sukkot festival. In previous years, there had always been some yeshiva students or local townspeople who were only too glad to help the pious rabbi construct hissukkah-hut. But this time, not a single soul arrived. No one liked him, and no one even thought to help him.
Not being handy in these matters, the rabbi didn't know what to do. Finally, having no choice, he was forced to hire a non-Jew to build his sukkah for him. But the hired man did not possess the tools that were needed, and Rabbi Pinchas could not get a single Jew in the neighborhood to lend him tools because they disliked him so much. In the end, his wife had to go to borrow them, and even that was difficult to accomplish due to the prevailing attitude towards her husband. With just a few hours remaining till the onset of the festival, they finally managed to complete a flimsy minimal structure.
As the sun slid between the forest branches and the Rebbetzin lit the festive candles, Rabbi Pinchas hurried off to shul. Despite his solitary ways, he always made a point to attend the congregational prayers on the holidays; besides he didn't want to miss the opportunity to acquire a guest for the festival meal, something so integral to the essence of the holiday.
In those days in Europe, people desiring an invitation to a meal would stand in the back of the shul upon the completion of the prayers. The householders would then invite them upon their way out, happy to so easily accomplish the mitzvah of hospitality. Rabbi Pinchas, unfortunately, did not find it so simple. Even those without a place to eat and desperate for an invitation to a sukkah in which to enjoy the festival meal, turned him down without a second thought. Eventually, everyone who needed a place and everyone who wanted a guest were satisfied, except for the tzaddik, Rabbi Pinchas.
He trudged home alone, saddened and a bit shaken up at the realization that he might never have another guest, not even for the special festive meal of the First Night of Sukkos. Alas, that too was part of the price of his freedom.... It was worth it, wasn't it?
Pausing just inside the entrance to his sukkah, Rabbi Pinchas began to chant the traditional invitation to the Ushpizin, the seven heavenly guests who visit every Jewish sukkah. Although not many are privileged to actually see these exalted visitors, Rabbi Pinchas was definitely one of the select few who had this experience on an annual basis. This year, he raised his eyes and saw the Patriarch Abraham--the first of the Ushpizin and therefore the honored guest for the first night of the festival--standing outside the door of the sukkah, keeping his distance.
Rabbi Pinchas cried out to him in anguish: "Father Abraham! Why do you not enter my sukkah? What is my sin?"
Replied the patriarch: "I am the embodiment of Chessed, serving G-d through deeds of loving-kindness. Hospitality was my specialty. I will not join a table where there are no guests."
The crestfallen Rabbi Pinchas quickly re-ordered his priorities. He prayed that everything be restored to as it had been, and that he should find favor in the eyes of his fellows exactly as before. Again his prayer was answered. Within a short time, throngs of people were again finding their way to his door; seeking his guidance, asking his support, requesting his prayers, and beseeching his blessing. No longer could he devote all or even most of his time to his Torah-study, his prayer, and to his meditation. But thanks to his holy Sukkot guest, this was no longer seen as a problem.

Biographical Note: 
Rabbi Pinchas Shapiro of Koretz (1726-1791) was considered to be one of the two most pre-eminent followers of the Chassidism's founder, RabbiIsrael Baal Shem Tov (along with Rabbi Israel's successor the Maggid of Mezritch).


Reb Pinchas learned the hard way-even something as admirable as Torah study cannot be the sole antidote to life.  Our lives are lived in the context of people. Isolation is not a good thing. A our sukkah –our place of peace-is not a cave to hide from the world, in isolation but only a place of peace with others. A place of simple encounter –the encounter with the Divine and humanity.  As Martin Buber the Jewish philosopher might put it –a place for an I – Thou relationship.  The simple sukkah, no McMansion is a place of simple beauty-so that the beauty of relationship can take root in the shared meal, the shared conversation that is without distraction of things and material wealth.  The way we beautify the mitzvah of sukkah-is by inviting guests to share in this simple striking way of being for the week.  The concept of beautifying a mitzvah is known as Hiddur Mitzvah.  Glorifying or beautifying everything we do in service of the Divine Holy One.  That is why we decorate our simple booth.  That is why we buy a beautiful and unblemished etrog.  
Here is a lesson about the importance of what real beauty is in Jewish tradition.  The beauty of the Jewish people acting together.   
Hidur Mitzvah.—the glory of the mitzvah.


A Beautiful Etrog

(http://www.meaningfullife.com/torah/holidays/1c/Sukkot_Stories.php)

Each Sukkot morning, after performing the mitzvah of taking the “Four Kinds,” the previous Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak Schneersohn, would allow all who wished to do so to use his lulav and etrog. Many chassidim availed themselves of the opportunity, though they had a set of “Four Kinds” of their own, regarding it as a great privilege to perform the mitzvah with their Rebbe’s set.
One day, after the Rebbe’s etrog was returned to him bruised and stained from being handled by hundreds of hands, one of his chassidim said to him: “Why do you allow so many people to use your etrog? Look at what has happened to it! It has lost its hiddur (beauty)!” [1]
“Why,” replied Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak, “this is the most beautiful etrog in the world! What greater hiddur can there be for an etrog than the fact that hundreds of Jews have performed a mitzvah with it?”

The beauty is in the simplicity. In the sharing. In the people.  That is what makes this zman simchateinu-season of our joy.  The simple joy of being with those you care about.  Make sure you enjoy friends and family this week. For they are what really count.